Quarter of the Year Check In: Fitness, Relationships, and Career



Hey guys!

What’s good? What’s poppin? I hope you all are doing fantastic.

Can you believe we’re at the 1/4 mark of the year.  I’m shook. I feel like each year of my life keeps going faster and faster. 2018 is not playing games with how fast it’s going. Sometimes I’m like sis slow down. I wanted to do a little check in as to how my year is going so far.

Let’s start with the not so pleasant, so we can end on a high note.


You know the cliche New Year’s resolutions that you make to “workout more”, “eat healthier”  and “lose weight.” Well, I fell into that. I definitely have a few pounds that I would like to lose, as well as toning up my body more.

In January, I did the Daniel Fast (not for weight loss reasons) and lost a total of 6 lbs in 3 weeks. Since then ,I have been on an up and down gaining and losing the weight. I have lost more and I have gained more. Right now, I feel like I am on a fitness plateau. This year has been the most relaxed that I have ever been with my fitness and diet. I hardly work out and indulge more than ever.

All that stops now though. I’m not going to beat myself up for past actions (I’m human. I make mistakes.) However, I am going to work harder for the rest of the year to knock my fitness goals out of the park.


I definitely feel like I have strengthened the bonds that I have with my friends. I have not necessarily made any new friends, but I finally feel like I have officially established a solid college friend group. I am learning to appreciate my friends more and I have definitely had more time to hang out with them this year.

In regards to romantic relationships, that’s still a dub. I’ve learned more about myself and the type of relationship that I desire. Watching the #RelationshipGoals series on YouTube has put things into perspective. I’ve also attended Dating with Purpose event hosted by YouTuber Ashley Empowers and her husband.

I can honestly and openly say that I feel mentally, emotionally and spiritually prepared for a relationship. However, I’m waiting on God’s rightful man to come into my life and pursue me accordingly.


This area of my life has made of the biggest strides so far. For those of you who don’t know, I interned at a radio station this semester. I had the opportunity to be on-air and report on stories that I pitched. I am currently in my first upper level broadcast journalism class and I am blessed to say that I am doing well. Mini testimony, my professor who is known for being Margaret Thatcher tough-as-nails strict and hard complimented me today. He said that I am doing very well and that he wishes he had a class full of students like me. What an honor! This class just made me really confirm the fact that I am doing what I am called to do.

My Spanish class is another story.  Spanish is my minor and up until this point, I have felt that I have a pretty good grasp of the language. However, this class has pushed me to limits that I never thought were possible.  The class is filled with 90% native Spanish speakers. It has been extremely intimidating. My confidence in my speaking has gone down.  Nonetheless, I am learning that I have to go above and beyond if I want to be fluent. I have begun to watch telenovelas to get extra practice in. Plus, there has been good moments. For example, when I did community service for the class, someone thought I was an Afro-Latina because of the way that I spoke. I felt really proud of myself.


Overall,  this year is going by pretty smoothly. Some lows, but mostly highs. I cannot wait to see what the rest of the year has in store.

Let me know how your year is going in the comments or contact section of the blog.

Stay Blessed,